Thursday, March 28, 2013

Social Media is getting in the way


Social Media is ruining Relationships

            Social Media is really getting in the way of healthy relationships and not just couples, friendships too. I feel as if it is causing problems because too much personal information is shared on these sites such as Facebook and Twitter. When a boyfriend or a girlfriend posts on someone’s wall on Facebook their partner feels like they have to be nosey and know about everything that is going on. It becomes upsetting not on to the couple put also their close friends; causing friendships to be lost and a break up waiting to happen leaving two very depressed people on their own.

            When it comes to friendships being ruined, that is mostly due to Twitter. When you have a couple of friends that are pretty close to you and you see one of them tweet something about hanging with the girls and tagging everyone but you is when the drama all begins. You read that and become very sad and upset to even think your friends would even do such a thing so you decide to text them. Texting them isn’t always the best solution because it is just allowing them to realize what they have done and talk about you throughout the night while you aren’t around. The better solution would be to not use any social media and simply talk to them face to face about it the next time you see them and simply ask, why? What you absolutely shouldn’t do is tweet a smart remark back causing a Twitter fight; no one wants to see this stuff on their news feed so don’t be one of those people.

            Twitter is basically one big thing that leads to drama and shouldn’t be used in that way. Facebook isn’t as popular anymore but it is also something that can lead to trouble. If you know you are about to post something and you left someone out and you know that you wouldn’t want to see it if you were them, then don’t post it! Twitter and Facebook are ruining friendships all the time, don’t let it ruin yours. (355)

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